I am in desperate need of some good advice. First of all before I start let me get this fact out in the open; I am more than aware that i have made major mistakes in my life, however i am even more aware that I need to rectify my situation, and I need to do it now.
A few years ago I
was seeing a guy and I thought it was the real thing.... I was wrong. I got
pregnant and as soon as I told him he vanished into thin air. I had a baby boy,
who is now four and continued to live in my mother's house, I was 25, unmarried
and a single mother while still living as a dependent in my mothers house
therefore I was beyond depressed. My mother didn't rebuke me, she helped me
take care of my son and I was able to get a pretty good job.
Just over two years
ago I started dating a guy and we have been together ever since, we had no
issues at all up until October when he lost his job. Our world literally fell
apart, we had to put all plans for our wedding and plans to move into our own
home on hold. The worst part was that I was already pregnant...
I
was only weeks away from giving birth and now we had no income at all as i had
left my job, seeing as we were comfortable on his salary. As accommodating as
my mother was i took the decision to move in with my partner and his mother as
he said it would please her greatly and that as a man he could not come to stay
at my mother's house.
This was the start of the issues that I currently have. My partner was the one looking after his mother financially, and as he had no means of income anything I could get I would contribute towards the running of the house.
This was the start of the issues that I currently have. My partner was the one looking after his mother financially, and as he had no means of income anything I could get I would contribute towards the running of the house.
Last week his mother
sat me down when my partner wasn't at home and complained that the money I was
giving wasnt enough that I had to give her more money, she complained that my
'husband' eats so much and that as a wife it was my duty to make sure he was
catered for. I am now stuck with a baby of 6 weeks old and partner that I can
not afford to feed.
My question is this;
should I take my child and move back to my mothers house? i know it will cause
issues but do I have any other choice? I have not been able to look for work as
my baby is so young butIi will soon.
Please speak your
minds and tell me if I should grit my teeth and bear it or simply move back
home.
Thank you in advance for your response
Thank you in advance for your response
1 comment:
My dearie,congrats first of all,to be honest wit u u've hve make d first mistake dnt make d second one,if u luv ur guy kindly stay put nd look for a job,cos if u leave nw pple will be saying dt u're nt a wify material bcos he did nt hv nw dt's y u left him dt u're only aftr d mny,dnt go dear if u really luv him both of u should luk for a job,do u knw if ur partner is trying u @ ds tym if u'll stay wit him in hard tym,pls hny use ur head,gud luck.
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